🪡 why i left fashion behind


hiya, Reader.

💌 what’s in this email 💌

+ doors to FORTIFY: 21 Day Embodiment Reset are OPEN!

+ fashion departure into energy arrival (7 minute read)

🪡 a share from J’Aime ✨

I spent nearly two decades working in fashion, building a life through color, texture, embroidery, and form. There was a clarity in the way I worked. A deeper instinct for harmony and disruption.

I could feel it in the way colors met each other. How one tone would deepen another or offset the entire palette. How placement would either interrupt the body or move with it. Sometimes only the slightest adjustment was required and suddenly there was coherence. A sense that all the elements were speaking the same language.

✨ It wasn’t something I thought my way into. It was something I felt. And I was really good at it. So I trusted it.

For years, that sensitivity had a home. It lived in fabric, embroidery, color, and form. I could take what I was sensing and actualize it into something tangible;

A concept birthed into the physical. Energy translated into material.

The physical is often the beginning. We are tangible beings, trained to trust what we can see, what we can hold, what we can prove. There is a devotion in that. An artistry in refining something until it reveals its coherence.

Fashion was my training ground. But what I was listening for did not end at the surface. It kept moving.

There was a growing awareness that the same coherence I was feeling in design existed everywhere. In the body, in the way people held themselves, in the spaces between words, even in the subtle exchanges shaping how we experience one another.

At the same time, the environment I was working within began to feel increasingly out of rhythm with that knowing.

—There was more noise than listening.

—More reaction than attunement.

—Cat claws and gossip circles.

I was swimming upstream from my true nature. And so change was coming, like a storm on the horizon coming to clear what is dissonant and return me to a more aligned place.

In a moment of guidance, an intuitive spoke the words,

“It will feel like you are remembering something you always knew.”

And in the moment that I heard them, something unlocked. Not only mentally, but physically and energetically. A recognition moved through my whole system like a transformer coming online.

⛵️ And so I shifted my sails.

Not away from what I had built, but deeper into it.

Inward. Upward. Outward.

Inward, I began peeling back the layers of who I had been taught to be. What remained was something more expansive. Less constructed. More inherent.

Upward, that awareness opened. What I once experienced as instinct revealed itself as connection. A relationship with something beyond the visible, yet deeply felt.

And outward, my life reorganized.

I slowed down. I listened differently. I began studying the body not just as form, but as a living system of intelligence.

+ Sensation.

+ Patterning.

+ Adaptation.

+ The creation of pathways.

+ The capacity to reshape them.

What started as physical became deeply internal. Micro movements. Subtle articulation. Building strength, balance, and alignment not only structurally, but energetically.

🤯 I became obsessed with energy and kept leaning further into the unseen; the untamed. Into the pathway that was mine.

And from there, the work continued to expand.

What I once expressed through fabric, I now work with directly.

Through people. Through animals. Through nature. Through the unseen dynamics constantly shaping our experience.

💖 I work in deep energetic attunement with animals and have become known for the way I listen and communicate beyond words.

🫶 My work has led me into subtle energy healing alongside Dr. John Amaral, where I continue learning how healing can be approached in a more integrated and deeply human way.

💎 It has led me into direct dialogue with the mineral kingdom, channeling transmissions that are now becoming a book.

🐎 Into relationships with horses. Trees. Wind.

✨ Into a more intimate understanding of the language of energy and the intelligence living within all things.

The more I listen, the more expanded I feel by the opportunity to be human.

To some, my path looks untethered. Random, even.

But from where I stand, there has been no departure.

Only a refinement. A widening. A return to the same language.

No longer translated through material, but lived directly through presence, perception, and energy itself.

And for the first time in my life, I feel fully aligned with the purpose of why I am here.

This is what i want for you and every being on this planet. Join us for FORTIFY, friend.

in love and expansion, xx J’Aime

💪 FORTIFY: 21 Day Embodiment Reset 💪

have you checked out FORTIFY yet, friend? we at the iNCOMING share our experiences, share our stories, in order to give YOU permission to let go of what no longer serves, to live untethered, and to recenter your truth around YOU.

FORTIFY is a 21 day embodiment reset, where you will get the chance to experience our unique form of YOGA with emBODYbrace class as the asana, building body awareness and alignment, and Mirror Work class as the meditative space to arrive into your power as a creator.

we are so excited to share it with you, friend. it’s gonna be an amazing journey together. check it out. we are just waiting for you to arrive in your brightest light.

in community & love, Stephanie & J’Aime

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